HOW TO DO HOSPITALVISITATION|
by former Chaplain Dana Bratton
Spirituality and Health Care
The first "how to do" is to go. A visit in the hospital is
very much appreciated and can be very helpful to a person's recovery and well
being. Pray for a heart of compassion and mercy. I Peter 3:8 says, "Finally,
be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be
pitiful, be courteous."
1 Cor. 12:26 And whether one member suffer, all the members suffer with it; or
one member be honoured, all the members rejoice with it.
2 Cor. 1:3-4 Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the
Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort; Who comforteth us in all our
tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by
the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God."
Matthew 25:35-40 Jesus said, "I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison,
and ye came unto me. Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when
saw we thee an hungered, and fed thee? Or thirsty, and gave thee drink? When
saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? Or naked and clothed thee? And the
King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, inasmuch as ye have
done it unto on of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me."
Ministering to the sick, making calls in the
- Pray for the patient before you go to visit and
offer to pray during the the visit. You may ask, "what specific things can I
pray for, for you?"
- Be careful about your appearance, cleanliness,
and smell (avoid cologne or perfume).
- Check at the volunteers' information desk for
the location of the patient and directions. Be careful to observe visiting
hours and all rules of the hospital. You will be entering the patient's bedroom
as a guest, be sensitive to their privacy. Often there are several patients in
a room, be sensitive to them as well.
- Always consult the nurses when a patient's
curtain is pulled, the door is closed, or there are isolation signs on the door
about wearing gown, mask, and gloves, before entering.
- If the patient is sleeping, do not wake him.
Patients should not be visited right after surgery.
- Enter the room quietly, seriously, but smiling.
Be calm and settled, not rushed. Look the person in the eyes.
- Don't sit on or shake the bed. Don't touch the
IV machine or tubes.
- Limit the time of your visit, don't fatigue the
patient. But don't keep looking at your watch.
- Many patients will a appreciate a gentle touch
or holding the hand, especially during prayer, but don't squeeze the hand with
- Most patients appreciate being given a booklet,
if they are able to see it. If distributing literature, be sure to read it
first yourself, and make sure it is acceptable for the patient before giving it.
- Express love, and genuine interest in the
patient. The patient will generally like to discuss their sickness and other
needs, if asked. You should listen, more than speak. You want to express some
empathy but be careful not to share all your "war stories". Don't belittle the
- The patient my complain about the medical
treatment they are receiving, don't undermine the staff's authority or
- You want to encourage the patients, so don't
bring bad news about the world. The patient may want, however, to talk about
the news. Men often enjoy talking about their work. Women often enjoy talking
about their family.
- If you don't know the patient's spiritual
condition, ask! But don't argue or theologize. Don't carry a large Bible. If
the person is unsaved share the Gospel using Scripture and/or your testimony,
and a non threatening Gospel tract.
- Accept any interruptions of your visit from
doctors, staff, or family. Often there will be opportunities to visit and
minister to the family.
- Wash your hands after touching the patient.
Some suggestions for comfort and support with a terminal
- Be honest in sharing your feelings. Admit your
helplessness and concern.
- Don't be shocked by whatever the dying person
- Try to anticipate physical needs without being
- Don't stop being a comforter when the patient
accepts his impending death, or when others begin to avoid the patient.
- If the person is saved, talk about Heaven and
the Lord's presence. Always have hope, look forward to something.
Questions to ask the terminal patient:
- Is your house in order? i.e. bills paid,
apologies made, arrangements for the care of the family.
- Do you have any funeral arrangements?
- Have you written a will?
- Are you prepared to meet God? The person's
relationship to Christ is the utmost priority!
For additional help or follow up consult your local hospital chaplain or the
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